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Simi Kainsworth (simi.kainsworth@tcfarm.com) wrote: : I am only 14 years old so I am still new at masturbation.
I started at age 14 also, and the first time was more or less an accident. I was in my room, reading something non-sexual in nature, like a Hardy Boys book or something. I was laying in my bed, on my back, and absently stroking myself through my briefs. After a while, I reached inside and started stroking the rod in sort of a reverse grip - fingers underneath, and thumb above. At the time, this just felt good in a general way; I was concentrating mostly on what I was reading. After probably 20-30 minutes of this, I got a very strange feeling, like the area between my thighs and my belly button was getting all numb. Then I squirted my first ever load and made a mess of my underpants. I was totally amazed - and I was sort of embarrased about it. But I wanted to do it again at the first opportunity, and I probably wanked about a dozen times in the first week. It was before I learned about using lubrication, so my penis got very raw. I remember going to school with kleenex wrapped around my sore member, hoping the guys in my gym class wouldn't see my condition when I showered after class. :-) :-)
I have been 'bashing the bishop' pretty regularly since then, even after I got married. I really think this is a normal part of our sexuality, and it makes no sense to feel guilty about it. I also think we should be encouraging our teenagers to pleasure themselves, not only to avoid unwanted pregnancies and the possibility of disease, but also to get in touch with their own sexual feelings before experimenting with a partner.
: Does anybody know have any suggestions so that I will feel less guilty : about masturbation? I have been doing it for 6 months now but I still : feel guilty every time I do it.
You're experiencing some new and pretty powerful feelings, but realize that most of us have gone through the same changes. Discovering and accepting our sexual natures is just part of growing up. Enjoy the feelings and don't let ANYBODY tell you you shouldn't do it. Happy wanking! :-)
: Anyone out there have any suggestions on how to masturbate better?
If you're not using lubrication, try some. My favorite is still plain old vaseline, although I've experimented with lots of other things. Crisco, cooking oil, moisturizing lotions. That's part of the fun.
: Thanks.
: Simi.